Oh, my, where has the time gone??? So much has changed in the last 11 months. I am now looking for a full time job. We are in the process of applying for a loan to purchase another old, old house across from Tower Grove Park. We should know in the next couple weeks. So, if we get this place, I will never have to worry about what to do with any "extra" money I may run across. I may need a full time job just to fix this place up.
Happy Friday!!!
One Way
"Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved." (Romans 10:9-10)
Friday, September 18, 2015
Wednesday, October 22, 2014
Foot Update
I have been out of my "boot" for about 3 weeks now and seem to be getting around OK. My foot still swells up and so I am icing it a couple times a day. I am also trying to be diligent about doing my daily exercises. I am looking forward to my December 9 surgery when the doctor will remove the three screws from my foot. I am hopeful that that will reduce some of the swelling and allow me to get back some foot flexibility. (I still can't get my foot in my mouth yet although I am getting pretty close!!) :-0
I have been out of my "boot" for about 3 weeks now and seem to be getting around OK. My foot still swells up and so I am icing it a couple times a day. I am also trying to be diligent about doing my daily exercises. I am looking forward to my December 9 surgery when the doctor will remove the three screws from my foot. I am hopeful that that will reduce some of the swelling and allow me to get back some foot flexibility. (I still can't get my foot in my mouth yet although I am getting pretty close!!) :-0
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
Foot Update
What a day. I called my ortho doctor's office this morning because I found a=
little lump on the outside of my foot about 2 inches above that knobby bone=
. It hurt whenever I touched it or my other leg touched it. I thought mayb=
e I caused this when I felt on my foot the Sunday before this last one when I=
feel forward in my wheelchair on my bad foot. I thought I might have dislo=
dged something or messed up my foot somehow. But I did not want to call the=
doctor just because of this so I wanted over a week and it was not getting a=
ny better. At the same time, I noticed one of my sets of stitches was getti=
ng a little red. =20
So, when my doctor's office called back, they wanted to see my right away (m=
ainly due to the redness in my stitches). They had an appointment this afte=
rnoon (Tuesday) at 2:40 or one on Thursday. The one for today was around 20=
miles away but I decided I did not want to mess around with a possible infe=
ction. So, I went to the doctor today.
I actually saw my doctor today and not one of his assistances. They took an=
other full set of x-rays. When the doctor came in, he said it looked like I=
had a stitch infection. I asked him what caused that. He said it could be=
one of many different things. I asked so it wasn't bad stitching by the do=
ctor???? He said no, the stitching was amazing. :-) After that, he took s=
omething that looked like a qtip and started digging around in my stitches. =
Man, oh, Man. And then he squeezed it and squeezed it and squeezed it some=
more. I think the got everything out. So, it started draining some. =20
The doctor did not seem very compassionate and I mentioned something to him a=
bout that. He said something about he did not get much sleep last night due=
to our storms and so he was tired and so his bed side manner was not in top=
form. I told him I had not slept very well for 3-4 weeks. He was not impr=
essed. I told him it might be a long week for him since this was only Tuesd=
ay. (On my way out, I did look for him and tell him I hoped he did get a go=
od night's sleep!!!)
Oh, where was I. After cleaning out my stitches, he said he was going to pu=
t on a hard, windowed cast. I was not exactly sure what that was but they e=
nded up putting on a hard cast. Then, the nurse sawed a hole in the side of=
the cast. That was pretty exciting..... She opened it up and said I was t=
o change the medicated patch once a day. Then, I was to put the little cast=
window back and wrap everything back up. They also prescribed me some anti=
biotics to take twice a day.
Then, he checked the lump on the side of my foot. He did say he could feel i=
t and I told him it hurt when he was messing with it. He was not sure what i=
t was but decided to prescribe an MRI. He had a little MRI machine that he u=
sed to look at it and take some pictures but don't think he could tell much f=
rom that. So, I am supposed to get a call within the next 48 hours to get m=
y foot MRI.
The doctor said he would take another look at my foot in a week. So, I gues=
s I need to make an appointment. I got out after 4 p.m. and I think they cl=
osed at 4 so no one was around to schedule an appointment so I am going to c=
all tomorrow on that. Then, after that appointment, my normal appointment i=
s just a week away. I guess that is one way to make these last two weeks fl=
y by.
So, I didn't think I really had any good news to report but actually there w=
as some. The doctor had looked at my x-rays and indicated that they were no=
issues with the hardware (screws) that he had put in my foot. Originally, I=
had thought that maybe the lump on the side of my foot was related to my wh=
eel chair incident (or maybe got aggravated when I feel outside a restaurant=
last week). So, I guess those two stupid things did not mess anything up.
I am just hoping that I don't break anything else before I get this cast off=
. It sounds like I am still on the path of now having this hard cast on for=
a little more than two more weeks. Then, get checked on and then I am guess=
ing I will also have some kind of a cast on for another 4 weeks during which=
I hope to be able to put some weight on my foot. =20
I think I am going to be so excited that I think I am going to finalize all m=
y travel plans to see all the folks I have not visited yet. I am feeling th=
at I am getting to the age when I can't just think I am going to be around t=
he next day... SO, I need to get all my relative visits in as soon as I can a=
s I don't think it is fair to only "bug" some of the family and not the othe=
rs!!!!!
So, be warned. Well, I guess that is about it for now. I mentioned to one o=
f the folks there about my not being able to sleep. She just mentioned agai=
n to take the anti nausea medication they gave me. So, I guess, I may try t=
hat again.
So, that is the latest on my foot. I can't wait to get this foot issue behi=
nd me. I think I am going to need to get a job just to pay all the doctor b=
ills.
I hope you all are doing better than me! There has got to be a lesson in he=
re somewhere.
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Foot Surgery Details
Foot Surgery Details
I injured my foot on July 8th playing tag with some kids at a park when my left sandal when perpendicular to the ground and my foot when the other way. I went to the Mercy ER and had x-rays. The doctor said I did not have any broken bones and that I should be fine in two weeks. Well, two weeks turned into three weeks and my foot still had issues. I was referred to an orthopedic doctor who took some additional x-rays and diagnosed me with a lisfranc injury. I will be having surgery some time this Tuesday, August 5th.
I am supposed to get a call on Monday letting me know when my surgery is. After the surgery, I am not supposed to be putting any weight on my foot for at least six weeks. I am not really looking forward to spending that much time on one foot but I guess I will see what will happen. A friend of mine loaned me his crutches and I have been "practicing" with them the last couple days. I have been very fortunate to get into the doctor so quickly but I still am getting tired of waiting to get this done so I can get on the road to recovery. Below are some details on the lisfranc injury.
Checked with Jill. Dr. N is very qualified and highly recommended. Got EKG and blood work done today. At DMV for handicap sticker.
Dr. N's office just called and so here are the technical details to go along with my laymen's explanation below. The main problem I have is called splay. This is where the foot bones spread apart when you are walking. There is a lis-frank joint that supports your foot arch. This is what they are planning on fixing. They said you could google lis-frank and get lots of details on that. They explained if I don't have the surgery that I would develop arthritis in the foot which would not be very pleasant. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and thought I would just double check with Jill to verify they were 100% comfortable with Dr. N's recommendation (which I am sure they will be)!!!
It sounds like I will have a soft cast for a short while and then larger get a hard cast. I am sure all of you will give me a HARD time!!!
ok, here are the details, at least how I understand it. My original ER doctor indicated that per the x-rays there were no broken bones. After having the problem with my foot (past 3 weeks), I was referred by Dr. H to Dr. D. His associate took a look at my foot and then ordered some extra x-rays. They to several different angles and also did a couple with me pushing down on my foot.
When Dr. N came in, he mentioned that the "load bearing" x-rays revealed the problem. Again, I think he mentioned there were no broken bones. He said if I looked at my foot, I could see it was not "pointing" in the same direction as my other one. The impression I got was the one of the main tendons or muscles going over the top of my foot may have been torn or detached. He mentioned there may be some bone spurs that need to be taken out. Then, I am guessing the screws would be used to reattach whatever had come detached.
He seemed to know what he was talking about and his waiting room was full. He was a younger guy (maybe a little younger than Dr. H). Anyway, I am comfortable that if Dr. H referred me to him that he should be good.
When he mentioned surgery, I asked about my trip to Portland. He mentioned that with surgery, there is always a risk of blood clots. It would be better to not risk flying that close to the surgery. Plus, I did not really think it would a lot of fun hobbling around on crutches since I will need to do that for 6 weeks.
I think that is the gist of my diagnosis. I did call Dr. N's office to see if someone could call me and make sure I got all of this correct and provide me with any specific details that I might have missed out on.
I hope this helps. If you saw my Facebook post, you have seen the big, black, boot I am wearing. So, it is going to be hard for me to get this foot in my mouth (at least for a while)!!!
P.S. The doctor said I would need to have someone drive me home after my surgery on Tuesday but I asked myself "What would Navin Johnson do?" Well, before I could answer, N called to let me know that M had told him what happened. He said they could drive me to the doctor and back.
I injured my foot on July 8th playing tag with some kids at a park when my left sandal when perpendicular to the ground and my foot when the other way. I went to the Mercy ER and had x-rays. The doctor said I did not have any broken bones and that I should be fine in two weeks. Well, two weeks turned into three weeks and my foot still had issues. I was referred to an orthopedic doctor who took some additional x-rays and diagnosed me with a lisfranc injury. I will be having surgery some time this Tuesday, August 5th.
I am supposed to get a call on Monday letting me know when my surgery is. After the surgery, I am not supposed to be putting any weight on my foot for at least six weeks. I am not really looking forward to spending that much time on one foot but I guess I will see what will happen. A friend of mine loaned me his crutches and I have been "practicing" with them the last couple days. I have been very fortunate to get into the doctor so quickly but I still am getting tired of waiting to get this done so I can get on the road to recovery. Below are some details on the lisfranc injury.
Checked with Jill. Dr. N is very qualified and highly recommended. Got EKG and blood work done today. At DMV for handicap sticker.
Dr. N's office just called and so here are the technical details to go along with my laymen's explanation below. The main problem I have is called splay. This is where the foot bones spread apart when you are walking. There is a lis-frank joint that supports your foot arch. This is what they are planning on fixing. They said you could google lis-frank and get lots of details on that. They explained if I don't have the surgery that I would develop arthritis in the foot which would not be very pleasant. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and thought I would just double check with Jill to verify they were 100% comfortable with Dr. N's recommendation (which I am sure they will be)!!!
It sounds like I will have a soft cast for a short while and then larger get a hard cast. I am sure all of you will give me a HARD time!!!
ok, here are the details, at least how I understand it. My original ER doctor indicated that per the x-rays there were no broken bones. After having the problem with my foot (past 3 weeks), I was referred by Dr. H to Dr. D. His associate took a look at my foot and then ordered some extra x-rays. They to several different angles and also did a couple with me pushing down on my foot.
When Dr. N came in, he mentioned that the "load bearing" x-rays revealed the problem. Again, I think he mentioned there were no broken bones. He said if I looked at my foot, I could see it was not "pointing" in the same direction as my other one. The impression I got was the one of the main tendons or muscles going over the top of my foot may have been torn or detached. He mentioned there may be some bone spurs that need to be taken out. Then, I am guessing the screws would be used to reattach whatever had come detached.
He seemed to know what he was talking about and his waiting room was full. He was a younger guy (maybe a little younger than Dr. H). Anyway, I am comfortable that if Dr. H referred me to him that he should be good.
When he mentioned surgery, I asked about my trip to Portland. He mentioned that with surgery, there is always a risk of blood clots. It would be better to not risk flying that close to the surgery. Plus, I did not really think it would a lot of fun hobbling around on crutches since I will need to do that for 6 weeks.
I think that is the gist of my diagnosis. I did call Dr. N's office to see if someone could call me and make sure I got all of this correct and provide me with any specific details that I might have missed out on.
I hope this helps. If you saw my Facebook post, you have seen the big, black, boot I am wearing. So, it is going to be hard for me to get this foot in my mouth (at least for a while)!!!
P.S. The doctor said I would need to have someone drive me home after my surgery on Tuesday but I asked myself "What would Navin Johnson do?" Well, before I could answer, N called to let me know that M had told him what happened. He said they could drive me to the doctor and back.
Lisfranc injury - http://orthoinfo.aaos.org/topic.cfm?topic=A00162
Saturday, May 31, 2014
What I Did On My Summer Vacation (Cont.)
After Adela finished her nap, Jodi gave her a little
snap. We decided to get out of the house
and do some shopping. Now, here is a
funny story. Jodi asked Adela if she
wanted to go to a mall. Adele said “Amal”. Amal is a friend of Adela’s. So, everytime Jodi asked about going to a
mall, Adela would say Amal. Jodi started
asking if Adela wanted to go to THE MALL!!!
So, we walked over to the center and picked up the car
which Donnie had left there. We went to
the shopping center. We decided to eat
at one of the popular hamburger places.
We each had a cheeseburger and shared a fry. Jodi tried one of their new deserts – some ice
cream concoction with I think some blueberry crisp in it. We wondered around the mall for about three
hours waiting for Donnie to finish up helping his friend move.
We had some pretty exciting times. We were just a couple minutes from the
shopping center when Adela says “Pou Pou” from the back seat!!!!! I just wish I could have seen Jodi’s face but
I was sitting in the back set with Adela.
Need-less-to-say, we made it to the mall in record time. I was assigned the task of distracting
Adela. Hum…I have had a lot of training
in almost 35 years but nothing to equip me for this. Somehow we made it to the mall, parked in a
space barely larger than a sardine can, raced into the mall, and Jodi ran ahead
with Adela. False alarm!!!
In the mall, we were in a store that looked like Bed,
Bath, and Beyond. Adela really loves
this place because they have all kinds of expensive kid stuff. She immediately found a doll which she fell
in love with and a baby carriage to stroll her around in. Adela took her new baby everywhere. There was an area where there was a refrigerator
which had all kinds of stuff in it.
Adela took some of the plastic eggs and stuck them in the tea
kettle. How cute??
Then, we wandered through the bedroom section where
Adela tried to tuck her baby into one of the adult size beds. Adela found a new 4 place tea setting which
she really enjoyed sharing with her new baby.
We probably spent 30 minutes in the store and at the end were trying to
figure out how we were ever going to get the baby away from Adela which her
being really, really, upset. Just when
we were about ready to leave Adela says “Pou Pou” again. Jodi grabbed the doll, placed in on the
nearest shelf and was off with Adela to the nearest restroom. I was left to put the doll back and follow up
with Adela’s stroller. This was the
fastest I had seen Jodi move in a long time.
When Adela and Jodi came out of the bathroom, again, it was another
false alarm. There was a third occasion
when this happened but I don’t recall the details. All this “Pou Pou” stuff seems to be running
together. J But we did end up with another false alarm.
We did have a really interesting thing happen with
Adela. We still had about 30 minutes or
so before we were supposed to me Donnie for supper at PF Chang’s. We were strolling in front of the supper
market area which was really noisy.
Adela turned around and looked at Jodi and pointed to her diaper
bag. Jodi thought Adela wanted something
to eat but then Jodi realized her phone was in one of the zipper bags and when
she got it out, it was ringing. Somehow
Adela had either heard or felt the phone.
Neither of us had heard it.
Donnie met us shortly and we went to PF Chang’s for
supper. Donnie ordered a lamb dish and
since Jodi and I had eaten just a few hours earlier, we decided to share a
different lamb dish. We also had some
tea and water. For our appetizer, we had
a large bowl of egg drop soup which the four of us shared. By the time we were done, everyone was pretty
full. However, on the way in Jodi had
seen this delicious chocolate cake that she decided looked like a good
desert. Donnie and I indicated we were
not interested in desert. Jodi kept
insisting that “we” should order a desert.
So, while Jodi took Adela off to play, I told her I would order the
desert. When I got the desert menu,
there were several chocolate items on it.
The chocolate cake desert that I thought Jodi wanted indicated that it
was a desert for four people. So, I was
not sure that is what Jodi wanted.
Donnie got Jodi to come back to our table to verify her order. Jodi indicated that that was the desert that
she had seen but she did not know it was supposed to serve four people. Well, I ended up ordering the desert. I was sure that none of it would go to waste
(not waist). When it showed up, it was a
pretty good size piece of cake. It had
some sliced strawberries with it which Adela loved along with some strawberry
sauce. It also had one side covered with
miniature chocolate chips. In-between
the different layers, there was also layers of chocolate frosting. Even though Donnie and I were not interested
in desert, we were pretty good helpers.
Jodi did manage to save some for a take-out bag to come home with her.
Right before we left, Jodi took Adela to the restroom
to make sure we would not have any issues on the way home. Adela has been doing great with her potty
training which just started two days ago.
When we got home, Jodi took Adela to the potty and we finally had some
success. We relaxed some and then it was
time for Adela to have a bath and then go to bed.
After Adela went to bed, we exchanged copies of the
different photos we had taken. Since I
got here, I took over 500 pictures / videos.
I think Jodi gave me about 1300 photos that she had taken. After that, we watched a couple of the shows
that I had recorded for Jodi. The
Bentleys have hit the hay but since I have not been sleeping very well, I
thought I would finish up my blog for the day and post it out online before
heading to bed. It is 73 degrees so I
hope I will have a better night’s rest.
I am guessing I will not sleep too much tomorrow night as I have to be
at the airport probably around 5 a.m. for my 7:10 a.m. flight out back to St.
Louis. I am sure that will be a short
night’s sleep if I get any! It has been
a great trip!
What I Did On My Summer Vacation
Day One and
Two – Thursday, May 22 and Friday, May 23rd
My
flight out of St. Louis to Chicago was scheduled to leave at 4:06 p.m. I only had a 55 minute layover in Chicago and
so I thought my connecting flight might be kind of tight. At first, I thought I would be flying into
one terminal and flying out another. So,
I thought I would have to go through security again. We checked before my flight and found out
that I would be flying into and out of terminal C so I was feeling better that
I would be able to make it. I am going
to be copying some of my Facebook posts so I don’t need to retype everything.
Flight from St. Louis to
Chicago
On board (not bored) my flight to Chicago. I have 55 minutes to make my Frankfurt flight!
Fortunately, I do not have to chance
terminals; just need to go a few gates away (C7 to C18)!
Here is a funny story for you... Got to United
baggage check-in and was adding ID tags to all my bags. I was waiting for an attendant to show up at a
station. A couple guys asked if I was
checking in. I said yes; I was waiting for an attendant. They said it was self service. Doh!!
In Chicago
I made it into Chicago but we docked at C1
instead of C8 so I had a few more gates to travel. I had about 55 minutes to make my Frankfurt
flight! Fortunately, I do not have to
chance terminals; just need to go a few gates away!!!!I was thinking C8 would
be just another normal gate but boy was I surprised. I guess I should have known that since this
was an international flight that things would be different. When I got to Gate 8, there was a huge crowd
of people. There were lines of people
for Groups of One through Six. There was
a flight board off to the side which I had to wade through the crowds to get
through. I wanted to make sure I was at
the right gate since I had less than an hour to make my first transfer.
I was relieved to find I was at the right
gate. So, I waited in Group 4 to get
funneled through security. When I
finally got up to the front of the line, I was told I needed to have my
passport verified and I needed to go through another line. I was glad to see that there was nothing
noted anyway that you needed to do this.
Typical airport friendliness. I
finally got my passport checked and went back to my Group 4 check-in. When I got back in line, the line was twice
as long as before stretching out into the main airport walkway. It seems that Groups 3, 4, and 5 were intermingled
since where Groups 4 and 5 were supposed to be lined up, they conveniently had
located a money exchange desk. More
typical airport lack of planning.
While I was waiting in line (again), I heard
someone say that Obama flew into Chicago around 5 p.m. and they had diverted
some flights!!! Oh boy!!! I am just glad
that my fight made it in ok. It looks
like my plane is here. Good news...I heard
one flight to Cleveland got cancelled.
With this long line to board, I know there is no way we are going to
make at 6:15 p.m. departure.
Flight from Chicago to
Frankfurt
On
board (not bored) my flight to Chicago. I am getting ready to take off will need to go
onto stealth mode. I will post more when
I can. We are still waiting to take off.
One of the back doors would not
"arm" so they are trying to find a maintenance man to check it out!!
Please stand by!!! I may be staying at
my next stop as I only have two hours and 15 minutes lay over. We are already 42 minutes delayed so my connection
maybe tight at Frankfurt, Germany.
They
are disarming all the doors and the pilot just announced that we would be allowed
to leave the plane. Oh, wait, the three
maintenance men just let the captain know that the door has been fixed and we
are getting ready for take-off. We shall see.
We are backing out now. Hopefully, we will take off shortly!! We are taking off 70 minutes late!! Make that 80 plus minutes! Well, we finally got off from Chicago 90
minutes late. So, this means, I will
have 45 minutes at the most to make my next connection.
In Frankfurt
I
finally got off the plane at 11:30 a.m. trying to make a noon flight. I found out my gate number and the guy said I
needed to get there ASAP. So, I started
racing off to my gate. I was not sure
how far it was but it seemed like half way across the world to me. I had two heavy bags with me. My laptop bag had two computers, two iPads,
and all the associated accessories and a few other items. My other carry-on bag had five pounds of
chocolate chips, about 6 pounds of coffee, a pound or so of gummy worms, some
books, my shaving kits and a bunch of other stuff.
I
raced and raced and raced to the other gate.
I was sweating like a pig and my heart was pounding. I finally make it to where I thought I gate
was to be but it just ended up being the train to my Gate and I just missed the
departing train. The next one was in two
minutes!! Also, about 10 minutes before
I had heard an announcement that everyone taking my flight should be on board! YIKES!!!
My
train finally showed up and I got off at terminal B. Then, I raced, and raced, and raced some
more. I thought I was going to die. I kept heading towards terminal B. Terminal B had about 100 different entry
points. I think Gates were divided from
1-21, 22-41, 42-49, 50-60, and then another set of 60 and above. I raced down the hallway towards the last set
of gates. Now, I ran and ran and ran
again. Finally, I got to the security
check point when they needed to rescreen all my bags.
I
took out each of my computers and iPad, then my money, shoes, belt, cell phone,
wallet, mint container, etc. I decided
to wear my money belt through since I knew it would be too involved to take it
off. My money belt set off the alarm and
so the security guy decided to “wand” me all over my body. He eventually did have me take off my money
belt anyway. Finally, I asked him if he
was going to have them hold my flight for me.
He said, OK go ahead.
Once
through security, I just threw all my stuff (belt, cell phone, money, watch,
etc) into my carry-on bag. I figured I
could get dressed on the plan. When I
finally got to the boarding area, they had to check my passport again. I finally got my ticket. When I handed my ticket to the ticket agent,
there was a problem with it and so he had to double check it. By this time, I think it was about two minutes
until we were scheduled to leave. I
finally go allowed through ticketing.
Then, I still had to go quite a ways down a couple long halls and some
stairs to get to the airplane. I think I
finally got my baggage stored and to my seat about 6 P.M. the time we were
supposed to fly out.
Again,
I was sweeting worse than ever. I had my
one carry on with me and when I got to my seat (the second to last on the
plane), I decided to get dressed. I put
on my belt and my money bag and loaded my pockets again. I had to keep wiping my forehead and neck to
try to mop up some of the sweat. It had
been really crazy but I had made it to my flight.
Interestingly
enough, we did not take off for about another 30 minutes.
Flight from to Frankfurt to
the Middle East
This
leg of my flight was to be only about five hours long. Once we got going, it was pretty
uneventful. I had supper and watched a
couple movies. We made it in only about
15 minutes late. I was not very hopeful
that my luggage would arrive since I had been 0 for 2 in my last trips. This time, it did not take too long for them
to unload the luggage. I also was
watching as I was making the long trip from where we got off to the baggage
claim to make sure I noticed where I had to go to claim my lost luggage.
In the Middle East.
I
had filled out my entry card to get into the country. The line this time was really short. There was just one lady ahead of me. I got in without any trouble. As I walked to the baggage claim area, I
noticed the counter where I knew I would be going to find a claim for my
bags. I waited for a few minutes but no
bags were to be found. I was about to
head out when I saw some folks who came with me from Chicago who had ALL their
bags. They encouraged me to go back and
look again. I went back and spent
another few minutes looking for my bags with no luck.
I
went to the baggage claim area where there was only one person ahead of
me. Things worked out pretty well (I
guess the third time is the charm) and it did not take me long to get the
paperwork I needed. When I was done,
there was a long line behind me. On my
last trip, I think this part took me 90 minutes. This time, I think I was done in about
15. So, something is getting better.
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I
put my two carry-on bags on a cart and went out to find the Bentleys. I was pleasantly surprised to see Jodi and
Adela there along with Jodi. I think
Adela was kind of shocked but I think by the time I got out to meet them, she
was glad to see me. So, I finally made a
successfully completion of my latest long distance journey.
I
was able to sleep from 10 p.m. until 1 a.m.
I laid awake for about 30 minutes listening to the rosters, dogs, bugs,
and traffic. Then, things died down
some. I finally decided to get up and
work on my travel log. While I was
working on my travel log, I also copied 12 GB of TV shows and other material to
a smart drive to pass along. I am
finishing this up around 3:30 a.m. so I guess I will try to go back to bed. Today will be another big, exciting day with
the Bentley family. I have not heard
anything from Adela so I am hoping she will take a break from her normal
schedule and sleep through the night. J
Saturday, May 24th
After
I went back to bed around 3:30 a.m., I laid awake for a while. But the next think I remember was waking up
and looking at the clock. I think it
said 7 a.m. so I did get some sleep. I
forgot to mention that after we got back from the airport, Donnie had supper
cooking in the oven. He had some
chicken, potatoes, and tomatoes in one dish.
It was pretty good.
This
morning when I got up, Donnie said that he had gotten texted that my luggage
had arrived at the airport. So, we
decided to go get my luggage ASAP before traffic got bad. We left around 8 a.m. and headed to the
airport. It was interesting in that they
had closed the main highway going to the airport so Donnie had to find another
way to the airport. It did not take me
too long to get my bags. I had a little
communication problem with the security guy who kept asking me my Father’s
name. He finally asked my Mother’s name
and then let me in. (I think he just
gave up.)
When
I got to the luggage desk, the luggage area was still locked up. The guy at the desk said he would call
someone and they would be there in 5 minutes.
While I waited, I noticed a big line of luggage by the luggage
carousal. I thought about looking for my
luggage there but figured they had placed it in the locked area. Before I could check, the guy opened the
luggage room. I looked all around the
room and could not find my bags. Later,
the guy told me to look at the other luggage outside of the locked room and I
found my two duffle bags there. I loaded
them up and we drove back home.
We
spent the next hour or so looking through all the stuff I brought. The big hits with Adela was her new purse
which included a cell phone, coin purse, hanky, and sun glasses. Adela also got a small doll which she really
loves. The big hit was her kitchen
broom. Adela just loved sweeping all the
floors. She made a really excited
squealing noise which was pretty funny.
Adela also got a bunch of books she really liked but I think Jodi was
more excited. Jodi and I unpacked,
sorted, and then hung up all of Adela’s new clothing. Adela was really excited about a couple pair
of sandals she got and a pair of boots she tried walking around in.
Adela
took about a two hour nap before lunch.
We had a quick lunch and then went out for a short walk to a close by
“zoo”. Adela and I went through the zoo
while Donnie and Jodi went to the café there.
We walked home and later had pizza for supper. Jodi, Adela, and I made a quick run to the
store while Donnie was working on the pizza.
After Adela was put to bed, we watched a couple episodes of
Survivor. Also, during the last couple
days, we had some people drop by to pick up the stuff that I brought over for
them. Now, everyone is in bed and I will
head that way after I finish this up. I
was supposed to take a sleeping pill to help me sleep through the night but I
forgot to ask Jodi for it before they went to bed. So, we will see how things go. Tomorrow, we are supposed to go out site
seeing and will probably spend the night out so I am not sure when I will have
access to the internet after we leave tomorrow morning. I may take my computer so we can watch some
more shows so if we do that I can see about updating my travel log. I guess that is about it for tonight. So, I better head off to bed. It is after 10:30 p.m. which is pretty late
for me.
Sunday, May 25th
Today, we skipped church and did a trip to Batroun, a
small town north of here on the coast.
It is a smaller town, kind of out of the way but it had some really
interesting sites. We stayed in a really
great hotel right off of the beach. They
had an indoor and outdoor pool. We spend
most of our time on the beach. Adela
loved that. The weather was beautiful
and so was the scenery. We ended up eating at the hotel restaurant which was a
mistake. I ordered chicken cordon
blue. When it came out, I thought it was
a couple fish cakes. It had a fried
outside and a little chicken and cheese on the inside. We wondered why no one else was eating there
but we just thought it was early. For
lunch on the way, we had McDonalds. On
the way out of Beirut, I think we stopped and had some ice cream.
Monday, May 26th
We were able to stay in the hotel until 1 p.m. so
Adela could take her nap. We did stop by
the pool before we left so Adela could get some last pool time. Jodi was going to go in the water with Adela
but the lifeguard said she would need a bathing cap to go in the water. I checked with the front desk and they wanted
$4 to rent a cap so we passed on that idea.
We asked where a good local place was to eat. We went there but it was pretty hard to
find. It was up the mountain some and
off the beaten path. You had to know
where you were going to find it. We
finally found it and there was a very small sign by the restaurant. We had to park out on the narrow street to
get there. Then, we had to walk through
the neighborhood to get there. We finally
found the place.
We ended up ordering the sea bass, French fries, and
some other stuff. The fries were
great. When the sea bass was served, it
still had the head, tail, and bones. I
guess that is the way they get the weight up since you pay by the
kilogram. That was an interesting
meal. But, I had some of the best French
fries ever. They also had real
catsup. The hotel restaurant we had
eaten in the night before had little catsup packets where the catsup was very
runny and tasted pretty bad. The good
part was that there was not enough catsup in the packets for more than two
French fries.
We had a scenic ride home. We stopped and saw some castle ruins and a
local winery. The winery was closed but
the guy unlocked it for us and gave us a tour.
After we were done, Donnie bought a bottle of wine. We watched a couple episodes of Survivor
after Adela went to bed.
Tuesday, May 27th
Today, we visited Donnie’s English class with the
Syrian kids. Jodi and I actually helped
read a couple books to the kids when we broke up into small groups. The kids were really excited about school and
learning English. Jodi also took a short
video of the class as she is working on a video for Passport for the summer.
We visited some friends of Jodi and Donnie who are
planning on moving to the US for a year.
They have four sons and it sounds like they have decided on St.
Louis. So, Jodi and I were answering
whatever questions they asked.
We visited another friend of Jodi’s who lives at the
center and has two small kids. We also
visited a Muslim lady from Syria who lives a couple blocks away from us. I got to eat some special Syrian food, then
got some fruit and tea and finally some nuts.
For supper, Jodi make pizza. Donnie bought a piece of furniture from a
friend who is trying to relocate to the US.
Donnie brought the base over in his car and I helped him bring it up to
the apartment. They larger, top part is
supposed to be delivered by a truck probably tomorrow.
We watched a couple episodes of Survivor after Adela
went to bed.
Wednesday 28th
Today, Donnie and I ended up going and getting some
vegetables and fruit at the local market.
We also stopped by and got some nuts.
We had tacos for supper. The lady
friend of Jodi’s from Syria that we visited from yesterday, stopped by today to
visit. A bunch of stuff that people
bought was delivered to the center.
Donnie’s furniture top was delivered there. Not sure how that is going to get over
her. We were over at the center so Jodi
could baby sit for a friend who was teaching an Arabic class. We watched a couple episodes of Amazing Race
after Adela went to bed.
Thursday, May 29th
Today, at 9:30 a.m., we are supposed to be going to a
park with the Syrian kid’s class to the park to celebrate their last day of
school. The kids were really excited to
go to Yuppi Park. We took about 13 kids
there. It was kind of expensive but the
kids really enjoyed it. They had a zip
line, trampoline, and all kinds of things to climb on. Jodi and I left about 11:30 to bring Adela
back for her nap. We stopped to get some
ice cream on the way home. Adela got put
down now and so I am catching up on my journal and Jodi is working on some
Bible stuff. I think Donnie is going to
go to a movie and do some grocery shopping on the way home.
Friday, May 30th
In the morning, Jodi had her woman’s Bible study at
11:30 a.m. until about 1 p.m. Jodi baked
chocolate chips cookies for her woman’s group.
They were really good. We got to
eat the ones that Jodi left here for us.
While Jodi was gone, Adela took a nap and Donnie and I just
relaxed. I think Adela had about a three
hour nap. Donnie, Adela, and I were just
about ready to leave when Jodi came home so she was able to join us for the
Silk Museum.
We went to the Silk Museum which was not too far from
here. I learned a lot about silk worms
and how silk was made. The really
interesting thing was that the museum that we went to used to be a factory but
due to the war and economic conditions was converted into a museum. So, silk is no longer made anywhere in
Lebanon. Another interesting thing about
the silk production process is that to get the silk out of the cocoon that they
are boiled in hot water until they soften.
Then, you have to find by hand the beginning of the silk string. From what the lady said, this is still done
by hand today. In most cases, it takes
more than one cocoon to make a one silk string.
Sometimes, 7-10 cocoons are needed to make one string. The cocoons that are not used to make the
silk string are used to start the reproduction cycle all over again.
Speaking of the reproductive cycle, that is very
interesting too. After mating, the male
silk worm dies after about two days. The
female silk worm is born blind (which helps the mating process) and her whole
responsibility seems to be the laying of her eggs. After mating, the female lives for around 10
days. We got to see an old man running a
silk lave. We also got to see some of
the many different male and female silk fashion outfits. Adela got a free chocolate treat from the
lady in the store. Adela seems to get a
lot of free stuff where ever we go.
Friday night, the Bentleys hosted an English worship
service. It was supposed to start at
6:30 p.m. and I think most people made it by around 7 p.m. I counted 23 three at the beginning. A little while later about another 10 people
showed up. We had a good mix of men,
women, kids, and babies. We had a time
of singing songs and then a friend gave his testimony. In the middle of our singing, we were told
that the street out front was closed off.
A few minutes later, we saw a large procession of people stopped out in
front of the apartment singing. They had
a small statue of Mary and seemed to be celebrating some holy day.
After Jimmy’s testimony, we had refreshments. The Bentleys provided nuts, watermelon,
popcorn, juices, and water. Someone also
brought brownies which were a big hit. I
think most people left by around 8:30 or so.
We cleaned up and then we watched an episode of the Amazing Race. Donnie went to bed but Jodi and I watched the
final “Amazing Race” show otherwise Jodi would not have been able to sleep. So, we were able to finish up both the
Survivor and Amazing Race shows.
Saturday, May 31th
Today, maybe a long day. I went to bed last night at around 10:15
p.m. I could not get to sleep and then
around 11:50 p.m., I heard a large explosion and a burst of light. Someone had set off a huge fireworks
display. It was like something you would
hear after a home run at a baseball game.
I thought it would wake Adela for sure.
But, I guess, she did not hear it.
My windows were open while Adela’s were closed and her wooden blinds
were down so I am sure that helped. When
I asked Jodi about it in the morning, she said she had not heard anything
either. I think I finally went to sleep
about 1:30 a.m. or so. I woke up at 4:30
a.m. and then laid in bed. At 6:00 a.m.,
I closed one of the blinds because the sun was starting to shine in. I also closed the window. At about 6:30 a.m., I closed the other set of
windows and blinds. I laid in bed a
little while longer and then decided to get up.
Donnie made pancakes for breakfast so we are ready for the day. Then, Donnie went out and got an internet card
with Adela. Also, this morning, I copied
some Arabic BSF files that Jodi had gotten from a lady she knows. She wanted me to give them to Linda for her
new friends.
We are not sure yet what we will be doing today. We could go visit some friends that live an
hour or two away or we might just stay home and relax. Donnie is going to help a friend move some
off his stuff out of his apartment. They
need to be out today. Jodi, Adela, and I
are going to relax at home.
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Colonoscopy - Written by Dave Barry
So here's the story.
I called my friend Andy Sable, a gastroenterologist, to make an appointment for a colonoscopy. A few days later, in his office, Andy showed me a color diagram of the colon, a lengthy organ that appears to go all over the place, at one point passing briefly through Minneapolis.
Then Andy explained the colonoscopy procedure to me in a thorough, reassuring and patient manner. I nodded thoughtfully, but I didn't really hear anything he said, because my brain was shrieking, quote, 'HE'S GOING TO STICK A TUBE 17,000 FEET UP YOUR BEHIND!'
I left Andy's office with some written instructions, and a prescription for a product called 'MoviPrep,' which comes in a box large enough to hold a microwave oven. I will discuss MoviPrep in detail later; for now suffice it to say that we must never allow it to fall into the hands of America's enemies.
I spent the next several days productively sitting around being nervous. Then, on the day before my colonoscopy, I began my preparation. In accordance with my instructions, I didn't eat any solid food that day; all I had was chicken broth, which is basically water, only with less flavor. Then, in the evening, I took the MoviPrep.
You mix two packets of powder together in a one-liter plastic jug, then you fill it with lukewarm water. (For those unfamiliar with the metric system, a liter is about 32 gallons.) Then you have to drink the whole jug. This takes about an hour, because MoviPrep tastes - and here I am being kind - like a mixture of goat spit and urinal cleanser, with just a hint of lemon.
The instructions for MoviPrep, clearly written by somebody with a great sense of humor, state that after you drink it, 'a loose, watery bowel movement may result.' This is kind of like saying that after you jump off your roof, you may experience contact with the ground.
MoviPrep is a nuclear laxative. I don't want to be too graphic, here, but: Have you ever seen a space-shuttle launch? This is pretty much the MoviPrep experience, with you as the shuttle. There are times when you wish the commode had a seat belt. You spend several hours pretty much confined to the bathroom, spurting violently. You eliminate everything. And then, when you figure you must be totally empty, you have to drink another liter of MoviPrep, at which point, as far as I can tell, your bowels travel into the future and start eliminating food that you have not even eaten yet.
After an action-packed evening, I finally got to sleep. The next morning my wife drove me to the clinic.. I was very nervous. Not only was I worried about the procedure, but I had been experiencing occasional return bouts of MoviPrep spurtage. I was thinking, 'What if I spurt on Andy?' How do you apologize to a friend for something like that? Flowers would not be enough.
At the clinic I had to sign many forms acknowledging that I understood and totally agreed with whatever the heck the forms said. Then they led me to a room full of other colonoscopy people, where I went inside a little curtained space and took off my clothe s and put on one of those hospital garments designed by sadist perverts, the kind that, when you put it on, makes you feel even more naked than when you are actually naked.
Then a nurse named Eddie put a little needle in a vein in my left hand. Ordinarily I would have fainted, but Eddie was very good, and I was already lying down. Eddie also told me that some people put vodka in their MoviPrep.. At first I was ticked off that I hadn't thought of this is, but then I pondered what would happen if you got yourself too tipsy to make it to the bathroom, so you were staggering around in full Fire Hose Mode. You would have no choice but to burn your house.
When everything was ready, Eddie wheeled me into the procedure room, where Andy was waiting with a nurse and an anesthesiologist. I did not see the 17,000-foot tube, but I knew Andy had it hidden around there somewhere. I was seriously nervous at this point. Andy had me roll over on my left side, and the anesthesiologist began hooking something up to the needle in my hand.. There was music playing in the room, and I realized that the song was 'Dancing Queen' by ABBA. I remarked to Andy that, of all the songs that could be playing during this particular procedure, 'Dancing Queen' had to be the least appropriate.
'You want me to turn it up?' said Andy, from somewhere behind me. 'Ha ha,' I said. And then it was time, the moment I had been dreading for more than a decade. If you are squeamish, prepare yourself, because I am going to tell you, in explicit detail, exactly what it was like.
I have no idea. Really. I slept through it. One moment, ABBA was yelling 'Dancing Queen, feel the beat of the tambourine,' and the next moment, I was back in the other room, waking up in a very mellow mood. Andy was looking down at me and asking me how I felt. I felt excellent. I felt even more excellent when Andy told me that it was all over, and that my colon had passed with flying colors. I have never been prouder of an internal organ.
ABOUT THE WRITER: Dave Barry is a Pulitzer Prize-winning humor columnist for the Miami Herald. On the subject of Colonoscopies... Colonoscopies are no joke, but these comments during the exam were quite humorous..... A physician claimed that the following are actual comments made by his patients (predominately male) while he was performing their colonoscopies:
1. 'Take it easy, Doc. You're boldly going where no man has gone before!
2. 'Find Amelia Earhart yet?'
3. 'Can you hear me NOW?'
4. 'Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet?'
5. 'You know, in Arkansas, we're now legally married.'
6. 'Any sign of the trapped miners, Chief?'
7. 'You put your left hand in; you take your left hand out...'
8. 'Hey! Now I know how a Muppet feels!'
9. 'If your hand doesn't fit, you must quit!
10. 'Hey Doc, let me know if you find my dignity.'
11. 'You used to be an executive at Enron, didn't you?'
12. Now I know why I am not gay.'
And the best one of all.
13. 'Could you write a note for my wife saying that my head is not up there?'
I called my friend Andy Sable, a gastroenterologist, to make an appointment for a colonoscopy. A few days later, in his office, Andy showed me a color diagram of the colon, a lengthy organ that appears to go all over the place, at one point passing briefly through Minneapolis.
Then Andy explained the colonoscopy procedure to me in a thorough, reassuring and patient manner. I nodded thoughtfully, but I didn't really hear anything he said, because my brain was shrieking, quote, 'HE'S GOING TO STICK A TUBE 17,000 FEET UP YOUR BEHIND!'
I left Andy's office with some written instructions, and a prescription for a product called 'MoviPrep,' which comes in a box large enough to hold a microwave oven. I will discuss MoviPrep in detail later; for now suffice it to say that we must never allow it to fall into the hands of America's enemies.
I spent the next several days productively sitting around being nervous. Then, on the day before my colonoscopy, I began my preparation. In accordance with my instructions, I didn't eat any solid food that day; all I had was chicken broth, which is basically water, only with less flavor. Then, in the evening, I took the MoviPrep.
You mix two packets of powder together in a one-liter plastic jug, then you fill it with lukewarm water. (For those unfamiliar with the metric system, a liter is about 32 gallons.) Then you have to drink the whole jug. This takes about an hour, because MoviPrep tastes - and here I am being kind - like a mixture of goat spit and urinal cleanser, with just a hint of lemon.
The instructions for MoviPrep, clearly written by somebody with a great sense of humor, state that after you drink it, 'a loose, watery bowel movement may result.' This is kind of like saying that after you jump off your roof, you may experience contact with the ground.
MoviPrep is a nuclear laxative. I don't want to be too graphic, here, but: Have you ever seen a space-shuttle launch? This is pretty much the MoviPrep experience, with you as the shuttle. There are times when you wish the commode had a seat belt. You spend several hours pretty much confined to the bathroom, spurting violently. You eliminate everything. And then, when you figure you must be totally empty, you have to drink another liter of MoviPrep, at which point, as far as I can tell, your bowels travel into the future and start eliminating food that you have not even eaten yet.
After an action-packed evening, I finally got to sleep. The next morning my wife drove me to the clinic.. I was very nervous. Not only was I worried about the procedure, but I had been experiencing occasional return bouts of MoviPrep spurtage. I was thinking, 'What if I spurt on Andy?' How do you apologize to a friend for something like that? Flowers would not be enough.
At the clinic I had to sign many forms acknowledging that I understood and totally agreed with whatever the heck the forms said. Then they led me to a room full of other colonoscopy people, where I went inside a little curtained space and took off my clothe s and put on one of those hospital garments designed by sadist perverts, the kind that, when you put it on, makes you feel even more naked than when you are actually naked.
Then a nurse named Eddie put a little needle in a vein in my left hand. Ordinarily I would have fainted, but Eddie was very good, and I was already lying down. Eddie also told me that some people put vodka in their MoviPrep.. At first I was ticked off that I hadn't thought of this is, but then I pondered what would happen if you got yourself too tipsy to make it to the bathroom, so you were staggering around in full Fire Hose Mode. You would have no choice but to burn your house.
When everything was ready, Eddie wheeled me into the procedure room, where Andy was waiting with a nurse and an anesthesiologist. I did not see the 17,000-foot tube, but I knew Andy had it hidden around there somewhere. I was seriously nervous at this point. Andy had me roll over on my left side, and the anesthesiologist began hooking something up to the needle in my hand.. There was music playing in the room, and I realized that the song was 'Dancing Queen' by ABBA. I remarked to Andy that, of all the songs that could be playing during this particular procedure, 'Dancing Queen' had to be the least appropriate.
'You want me to turn it up?' said Andy, from somewhere behind me. 'Ha ha,' I said. And then it was time, the moment I had been dreading for more than a decade. If you are squeamish, prepare yourself, because I am going to tell you, in explicit detail, exactly what it was like.
I have no idea. Really. I slept through it. One moment, ABBA was yelling 'Dancing Queen, feel the beat of the tambourine,' and the next moment, I was back in the other room, waking up in a very mellow mood. Andy was looking down at me and asking me how I felt. I felt excellent. I felt even more excellent when Andy told me that it was all over, and that my colon had passed with flying colors. I have never been prouder of an internal organ.
ABOUT THE WRITER: Dave Barry is a Pulitzer Prize-winning humor columnist for the Miami Herald. On the subject of Colonoscopies... Colonoscopies are no joke, but these comments during the exam were quite humorous..... A physician claimed that the following are actual comments made by his patients (predominately male) while he was performing their colonoscopies:
1. 'Take it easy, Doc. You're boldly going where no man has gone before!
2. 'Find Amelia Earhart yet?'
3. 'Can you hear me NOW?'
4. 'Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet?'
5. 'You know, in Arkansas, we're now legally married.'
6. 'Any sign of the trapped miners, Chief?'
7. 'You put your left hand in; you take your left hand out...'
8. 'Hey! Now I know how a Muppet feels!'
9. 'If your hand doesn't fit, you must quit!
10. 'Hey Doc, let me know if you find my dignity.'
11. 'You used to be an executive at Enron, didn't you?'
12. Now I know why I am not gay.'
And the best one of all.
13. 'Could you write a note for my wife saying that my head is not up there?'
Happy Thanksgiving
Inspirational Stories
She jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the operating room She said: 'How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I see him?' The surgeon said, 'I'm sorry. We did all we could, but your boy didn't make it.'
Sally said, 'Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?'
The surgeon asked, 'Would you like some time alone with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's transported to the university.'
Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she said good bye to son She ran her fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair. 'Would you like a lock of his hair?' the nurse asked. Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally.
The mother said, 'It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the University for Study. He said it might help somebody else. 'I said no at first, but Jimmy said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom.' She went on, 'My Jimmy had a heart of gold.. Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he could.'
Sally walked out of Children's Mercy Hospital for the last time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car.
The drive home was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's room.
She started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his room exactly where he had always kept them. She lay down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep.
It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Lying beside her on the bed was a folded letter. The letter said :
'Dear Mom,
I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say 'I Love You' . I will always love you, Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of His pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus, Himself, took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you good bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to you.. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked: where was He when I needed Him?' 'God said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children.
Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now He needs it to write some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great.
Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt anymore the cancer is all gone.. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery! How about that?
Signed with Love from God, Jesus & Me.
Sally said, 'Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?'
The surgeon asked, 'Would you like some time alone with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's transported to the university.'
Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she said good bye to son She ran her fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair. 'Would you like a lock of his hair?' the nurse asked. Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally.
The mother said, 'It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the University for Study. He said it might help somebody else. 'I said no at first, but Jimmy said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom.' She went on, 'My Jimmy had a heart of gold.. Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he could.'
Sally walked out of Children's Mercy Hospital for the last time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car.
The drive home was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's room.
She started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his room exactly where he had always kept them. She lay down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep.
It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Lying beside her on the bed was a folded letter. The letter said :
'Dear Mom,
I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say 'I Love You' . I will always love you, Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of His pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus, Himself, took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you good bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to you.. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked: where was He when I needed Him?' 'God said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children.
Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now He needs it to write some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great.
Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt anymore the cancer is all gone.. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery! How about that?
Signed with Love from God, Jesus & Me.